Social Networking vs. Social Selling

by admin on May 1, 2009

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I met Brent Haseker through Biznik — a wonderful site where people truly get to know one another — and we have developed a relationship over the past eight months. Our relationship truly embodies what Social Networking is all about.

Brent and I would probably never have met had it not been for Social Networking. He is back East and I’m in CA.  Our connection started after Brent commented on one of my Biznik Articles. I then responded to him and offered him my “relationship continuator” — a fabulous tool to help you identify those people who want to continue a relationship with me. The relationship continuator is  a gift subscription to QuoteActions.

Once again, the regular touch that QuoteActions offered, led Brent to respond to me which in turn caused me to set up a phone appointment. During our phone conversation, we strengthened our relationship and connection.  One of the results of tha was an introduction to someone who ended up becoming a client of mine.

The latest ROI of my relationship with Brent is that he invited me to be a guest in his Brent and Brandi Radio Show.  You can listen to the interview here.  I already got two new highly qualified prospects in my pipeline as a result of that show.

The reason I wanted to share this is because, of the power of Social Networking. It is also to illustrate what Social Networking is and what it isn’t. It is a wonderful vehicle to build relationships. And relationships will lead to business down the road.

What Social Networking is not, is a vehicle to make quick sales. Had I tried to sell something to Brent, our relationship would have ended right after our first interaction. Remember Social Networking is called that for a reason. It is not called Social Selling.  Be sure to remember this often. Failure to do this will lead you to one of the 5 Deadly Mistakes in Social Networking and it is extremely costly.

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{ 3 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Brent Haeseker 05.01.09 at 4:43 pm

Rick,

It was a pleasure having you on the show. You do such a great job communicating your knowledge and are always so generous with sharing it.

Thanks!

2 Judy Dunn 05.01.09 at 4:57 pm

Rick,

That is so great to hear that your “Brent and Brandi Show” experience was such a good one. (I will be their guest next week!)

I think what you have said here is so important. You had developed a relationship, so that invitation didn’t really come out of the blue. Same here. Brent had been getting my weekly marketing etips for some time and, of course, we have conversed on Biznik, too. Relationships take some time to build, but the connections are so much stronger.

Thanks for the thought-provoking post. I’ll have to stop by more often.

3 Brandi Pierce 05.01.09 at 6:41 pm

I’m glad you are proudly displaying your banner. We are really just floored to have had you on our show. Can’t wait to have you back for our Halloween Special!

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